I've been using a little castor oil in my cond wash and a mixture of oils (hot six and/or olive oil) in my leave-ins and styler concotions. My hair wasnt' feeling the oil (except in deep treatments) until recent months. Now, I'm really loving oils.
I usually add a lil bit of olive oil in my conditioner for co-washes. I also use it in my leave-ins. I make my own concoction water/olive oil/and Tui leave-in in a spray bottle and mist my hair with it through out the day if I'm wearing a wash-n-go or just once in the morning and once at night if I have twists, braids, cornrows etc. I currntly replaced the TUI with Infusium23 because I ran out and needed to improvise. This method obsorbs well into the hair with out that oily mess every wear. Hope this helps
i use mine right after i turn off the water in the shower... squish and scrunch the oil into my hair sparingly and then i plop. less mess that way.
After I co-wash, or wash or really whenever I style my hair. If my hair is wet, I towel dry and then put on my hair lotion and then put the oil on my hair. I usually put a lot because my hair is pretty dry.